When Motivation Feels Out of Reach, Start Small
Over the past few weeks, I’ve noticed a major dip in my motivation. From household chores to cooking to physical activity… I’ve just felt stuck, which is unusual for me. Normally, I run through a mental checklist every day—appointments for myself or my kids, their activities, the never-ending household tasks. But the last couple of weeks have felt especially challenging. Honestly, I’ve even caught myself searching for exercises I can do lying down - spoiler: they exist!
While frustrating, this has pushed me to rethink how I approach my daily to-dos. I’ve started breaking them into small, manageable tasks. On days when everything feels overwhelming, I give myself permission to spend just five minutes on something: doing the dishes, vacuuming, or even a quick yoga video. Getting started is always the hardest part, but once I begin, I usually end up finishing the task—or at least making more progress than I expected. This isn’t a brand-new strategy, but it’s one that works for me. It allows me to stay productive without overdoing it on days when my energy feels low.
Setting a small goal, like giving yourself five minutes for a task, can make bigger goals feel more accessible and sustainable. The same idea applies to nutrition and health. Small, consistent changes—like adding one serving of vegetables to a meal each day, or fitting in a 10-minute walk three times a week—are the building blocks of long-term success. Big changes don’t happen overnight. Change takes time. Strong habits take time. But starting small makes it possible.
Here are three ways I’ve applied the five-minute rule this week:
- Folding laundry. This is the task I loathe the most… so any dent I can make feels like a win. Even five minutes makes the pile less intimidating.
- Stretch breaks. Every hour, I took five minutes to stand and stretch. I get so stiff while working, and these short breaks made a big difference in how I felt throughout the day.
- Making my own coffee. I love grabbing a coffee most mornings from Starbucks or a local café, but lately I’ve been using those five minutes to make one at home. My Nespresso Americano saves me a few dollars each day, I control what goes in it, and I get to enjoy it in my pajamas—double win.
What can you do with five minutes?


